To Tip or Not to Tip…

So the question was raised, do you tip the servers at those car-hop type fast food places or not?

When we tip someone, we are saying that they are more than just the face of Megacorp.  Right here, right now, in this human interchange, they are a real person whose act of service has a definitive value and worth. They have worth.  By tipping that person right there you are validating them.

It doesn’t matter that someone makes a paycheck, they still deserve a tip for service rendered.

Count the Cost

Jesus warned His followers, and those who would, to first count the costs.  In other words, think long and hard about the life they would abandon, and the new one they would take on.  Gone would be comfort and security in material things, the expected comforts of an unruffled life.  Instead they could expect deprivation, insecurity, persecution and death.  [Paraphrasing Luke 14:25-33 and Acts]

But my point is, I think it’s great advice, and not only in application to a life following the Master.  I think it is a good idea for each of us to count the cost of such daily mundanities (it’s a word) as the way we spend our time and money.  In particular, the clothes we buy.

You see, clothing costs have risen steeply in recent years.  There are as with anything a number of factors.  That’s not my point here.  One answer has been to design clothing using cheaper, thinner fabrics (I’m sure you’ve noticed your favorite t-shirt get thinner, and all the new “burnout” fabrics–another way of saying “we used 25% of the thread as in previous garments!”).  Another old cost-cutting standby: cheap labor.

By now many have heard about subsistence wages and dangerous working conditions for garment workers in Third World countries.  Perhaps you thought the problem went away?  It hasn’t.  The latest tragedy, a building housing garment factories and shops in  Bangladesh, collapses, killing hundreds.  The building was deemed unsafe and an evacuation ordered the day before, but factory owners insisted employees come to work anyway.  Not a first-time incident for Bangladesh garment workers; hundreds more have lost their lives trapped inside burning garment factories.1

Whose fault is it?  Well, it’s partly mine, and yours.  You see the companies using these factories are those we like to shop at for inexpensive yet stylish clothing:  Wal-Mart, Kohls, JC Penneys, The Children’s Place for instance.

It is time to count the real costs of buying cheap clothes.  We need to be aware that the money we save buying cheap clothing is really a much larger cost passed on to the subsistence wage earning factory workers placed in dangerous work environments.  We get to gloat over our savvy purchase prowess.  They get to bury their dead.  We get to live in the comfort and security in material things, the expected comforts of an unruffled life.  They can expect deprivation, insecurity, and death.

Jesus said not to worry about our clothing.  He said to love our neighbor.  And who is our neighbor?  The one to whom we show mercy.  [Luke 10:25-37]

 

1 - http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-202_162-57581673/bangladesh-factory-disaster-how-culpable-are-western-companies/

New Style!

A lovely customer asked me if I could make a special customization for her rustic chic wedding.   Of course I accepted the challenge!  She had a bit of rustic going on with her wedding, but a lot of simple, clean elegant as well.  Her invites featured a neat two color border that she really wanted to have repeated on her banners and table numbers.  After playing around with a few different ideas, I was able to come up with just what she was looking for.   My “Fancy” font style also matched up with her invite font pretty well.  An all-around snazzy new style!

custom cards banner with printed border custom printed border s'mores banner custom burlap table numbers with border

Shipping Monday March 25

Dana
Cowboy garland

cowboy western theme birthday party garland

Brittany
Cowboy garland

cowboy western theme birthday party garland

Carrie
Embellished wish cards & escort cards

embellished wedding wish cards burlap and lace wedding escort cards

Ashley
Just Married, Cards, Sweet Treats in peach with starfish

rustic burlap cards banner with starfish beach weddingbeach just married bannersweet treats banner with starfish

Melanie
Starfish wish cards in colors

starfish wish cards in colors

Brenna
Starfish wish cards

starfish wish cards

Shipped Saturday March 23

Amanda
Just Married burlap and kraft banner with starfish
beach just married banner

Colleen
Mini cards banner, burlap and lace Love Is Sweet banner, Reserved table cards

rustic mini cards bannerburlap and lace vintage style love is sweet bannerrustic burlap and kraft reserved table cards

Katharine
Tent style burlap and kraft table numbers

rustic wedding table numbers

Courtney
Mr & Mrs burlap and lace banner

burlap and lace MR & MRS banner sign

Courtney
Custom burlap and lace last name banner with hearts

custom name banner in burlap and lace

Nancy
Large LOVE and date banner in burlap

Love engagement banner with date

Haley
Vintage baseball Happy Birthday banner

vintage baseball happy birthday burlap banner

Thomas
Vintage baseball happy birthday burlap banner

vintage baseball happy birthday burlap banner

Lauren
Custom baby last name photo prop banner

rustic kraft and burlap baby banner

Shipped Thursday March 21 & Friday March 22

Victoria
Burlap and lace shabby chic wedding escort cards

burlap and lace shabby chic wedding escort cards

Melanie
Mr and MRS wedding chair signs

burlap and lace mr mrs chair banner sign set

Ashley
Custom baby name banner

custom baby name banner

Brittnie
READ banner

read banner teacher classroom librarian gift

Kristin
Custom baby name banner

custom burlap baby name banner

Casie
Custom baby name banner

custom burlap baby name banner

Stephanie
Future Mrs personalized banner, nautical

future mrs

Shipped Wednesday March 20

Heather
Rustic burlap and lace flower girl baskets with Coral buttons and Here Comes the Bride burlap aisle sign with Pool letters

rustic burlap flower girl baskethere comes the bride rustic burlap aisle sign

Michelle
Rustic burlap and lace flower girl tote

rustic burlap flower girl basket

Tammy
Rustic burlap and lace flower girl tote baskets with Lemon Drop buttons

rustic burlap flower girl basket

Jennifer
Burlap and lace flower girl basket with Barn Red button

rustic burlap flower girl basket

Jana
Pregnancy maternity session photo prop banner

pregnancy maternity photo prop banner set

Melissa
Just married with hearts burlap and kraft banner in Peach

rustic burlap and kraft just married banner

Shipping Monday March 18

Hilary
WE DO Cake bunting

we do cake topper burlap lace cake bunting

Melissa,
Mini Reserved table cards & custom CARDS card

mini reserved wedding reception table signs

Shannon
Getting Hitched BBQ theme banner

gettin hitched engagement banner western wedding

Mary
Custom baby name banner

custom baby name banner

Amy
ONE first birthday photo prop banner for her little princess!

burlap and lace ONE birthday photo prop banner

Meg
Almost Married banner

almost married banner, rehearsal dinner wedding rehearsal sign

Shipping Saturday March 16

Nadine C.
Future Mrs personalized bridal shower banner

nautical theme future mrs personalized bridal shower banner

Whitney W.
Reserved table cards x3

rustic burlap and kraft reserved table cards

Kristen C.
WE DID burlap and lace banner

burlap and lace we did banner just married eloped

Melissa O.
Easter egg garland, 30ft.

Easter egg garland

Zana W.
Custom name banner, vintage circus style

vintage circus theme custom name banner

Linda K.
Happiness Is banner and 100 rustic accordion fold programs

happiness is wedding bannerrustic kraft burlap accordion fold wedding program

Cindy R.
Burlap and lace love banner with date

ivory burlap and lace love with date engagement save the date banner

Pamela
Ready to ship garland

paper garland